Cyber bullying, or ‘trolling’, affects 1 in 8 Australians – and this includes many with a disability. So what can we do?
Many Australians have been abused by online trolls – and this includes many people with a disability. So why does this happen and what can we do?
Did you ever get bullied at school? If you answered yes, you’ll understand the damage it can do. Sadly, with the introduction of the internet, bullying is even more common these days, particularly as it’s often anonymous.
Cyber bullying, also at times called ‘trolling’, now affects one in eight Australians – and unfortunately, this includes many people with a disability.
What is most concerning about this increase in cyber bullying and trolling is that fact it can lead to depression, social anxiety, and low levels of self-esteem.
So why does this happen and what can we do about it? Let’s answer a few of the commonly asked questions.
Well, trolls are those people who write cynical, negative, abusive, or sarcastic comments online about innocent by-standers – just because they can.
Internet trolls are much like the mythical trolls – except they hide behind a computer screen (instead of under a bridge), and deliberately go out of their way to cause trouble by provoking, disturbing, and upsetting someone.
While no one is safe from trolls, they tend to attack people who they think are easy targets or in their minds some way “different”, vulnerable, or insecure. The reason people are seen as ‘easy targets’ is really because they don’t conform to society’s often incorrect ideas of what is “normal”.
This may be to do with disability, race, religion or sexual orientation, or it may be because someone is famous (we’ve all heard of celebrities who’ve been viciously attacked online).
No matter what the reason behind a troll’s actions, it is never ok.
The sad truth is, there are so many examples of trolls being abusive towards people with a disability. Here are just two stories which recently hit the headlines.
Jameson Myer, is a young boy with Pfeiffer syndrome – a condition that alters the shape of his head and face. Jameson’s mum, AliceAnn, was horrified one day when she discovered that a cute picture of Jameson which she’d innocently posted on her blog had been turned into a cruel ‘meme’, likening Jameson to a pug dog.
AliceAnn Myers chose to send a message to her son’s trolls that would make them understand the damage they’d done.
“To everyone that “LOL’d”, shared, and posted that meme, let me start by introducing you to the child you find so funny. His name is Jameson. He is very real, and he was born with Pfeiffer syndrome.”
Lizzie Velasquez, is another who has had to deal with abuse from online trolls, but also one who refused to let trolls get the better of her.
Lizzie was born with two rare conditions – Marfan and lipodystrophy – which means she is visually impaired and unable to gain weight, no matter how much she eats.
At just 17 years of age, Lizzie’s life changed forever when she found that someone had made a YouTube video of her titled ‘the world’s ugliest woman’. The video had been watched over 4million times, and many people had left awful comments including that Lizzie should have been killed at birth.
Since then, Lizzie has embarked on a campaign to end bullying, and raise awareness of her conditions. She has established her own YouTube channel (with 240,000 subscribers), given a TED talk, and released a documentary, to inspire others to feel confident in their own skin.
Unfortunately, while you might be tempted to fire back with anger, sometimes the best tactic is to ignore the trolls.
After all, ultimately what trolls are looking for is a reaction. Deny them the pleasure of an angry reaction, and they’ll probably leave you alone – in other words, don’t feed the trolls.
However, there are times when it also pays to take a stance, especially if the trolling is particularly abusive and especially if it is threatening. Read on to find out how to take action.
While more work still needs to be done by social networks and also changes in the legislation, there are some steps you can take if you experience trolling of any kind:
If you or anyone you know is being affected by trolling or cyber bullying, you can seek support from ACORN, Kids Helpline or Lifeline.
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